Two different blogs show up on my stats as linking to my personal site. When I go to the blog, the url of my control panel shows up under their lists of links. Their link list goes to sites all over the world, but there is no explanation of what the links are for or why they're there.
I can trace the site owners with Whois, but haven't approached either one. Is that a good Idea? If so, how would you do it? Email, phone?
I reported it to my web host and all they said was "change your password."
But I'm still wondering:
Why did these people link to me? What are they trying to do?
If it happened twice, it will happen again. How can I stop it?