Well, I've got good and bad news for you.
Good news: Google knows of 839 pages in your site, Yahoo 774, and MSN 217. The MSN count is probably easy to fix, just by getting rid of the following:
Code:
<meta name="rating" content="General">
<META NAME="ROBOTS" CONTENT="INDEX,FOLLOW">
<meta name="distribution" content="Global">
<meta name="Generator" content="Candlelight High Heels Tag Generator">
<meta name="revisit-after" content="7">
<meta name="classification" content="Shopping">
<meta name="copyright" content="CandlelightFashions.com">
<meta http-equiv="reply-to" content="admin @ candlelightfashions.com">
<meta http-equiv="Content-Language" content="English">
<meta http-equiv="Content-Type" content="text/html; charset=iso-8859-1">
None of those mean much of anything, and I've seen the revisit-after tag cause the MSN bot to go really slowly on several occasions.
Bad news: You've got a lot of changes to make that will take some time.
Looking at
http://www.candlelightfashions.com/teddies.html (or maybe I shouldn't), the title is
High Heels, Sexy Shoes, Boots, Gothic Shoes, Ballets, Lingerie at CandleLight Fashions. That page is about Sexy Teddies, but that phrase isn't used at all in the title or on the page. Most of your categories are this way.
I figure you know this next line alrady, but I want to make sure it's very clear.
YOU HAVE TO USE YOUR KEYWORDS TO RANK FOR THEM
Ok, you don't have to. You can get 1000's and 1000's of links with the phrases you want to rank for as the anchor text to every one of your pages, but it's much easier to use them.
If you look at your
keywords on that page, you don't have much that is really specific to that page. You need some focus.
What I'd recommend for a title on that page is "Sexy Teddies and Sexy Lingerie". The site name doesn't matter to anyone looking for those items, so there is no need for it to be in the title. That page has next to nothing to do with shoes, other than most of the models are shown in shoes, so don't bother mentioning them.
You should also look at adding a headline and breadcrumb links. Right now, I can't tell if that's one click from the homepage or 10 by looking at it. If I click on something else, will I be able to find my way back? People want to know where they are, and it helps with cross-linking as well.
The products aren't really saying what they are either. Probably the best one on that page is "Lace Teddy w/ Thigh Highs". What it doesn't say is the color. On the product page it's a little better, calling it "2 Piece Floral Lace Teddy w/ Snap Closure and matching Thigh Highs". Even so, there isn't any other text on the page other than "Click image for larger view". Why not talk about it. Sure the picture is worth 1000 words, but you need to use those words for the search engines to know what your page is about.
Titles on the product pages are lousy at best. Instead of the product name, which is what that page is about, you've got "Teddies LA8647 - Sexy Lingerie, Teddies, Clubwear & Stockings". Where does it tell me that the page is about a 2 piece floral lace teddy w/ snap closure and matching thigh highs?
Also, I didn't notice this on other pages, but your product pages are structured weird. The title should be the first thing after the head tag. Instead, you've got a bunch of metas, several long JavaScripts (those could be external to make the pages lighter) and the title is the last thing in the header of the page. In fact, you've got your first script before the head section.
As for the DMOZ category, that could have to do with your forum and the disclaimer of "The pages that follow may contain nudity or offensive language". That sounds Adult to me, so I'd guess that you got categorized according to the guidelines. Just be happy that you're listed.
Link popularity is important, but since Google, MSN, and Yahoo don't ever show all your links you can't really gauge them. Google got rid of a lot of the DMOZ clone directories recently, so many sites lost some link popularity there.
You've got a lot of work to do if you really want some visibility. You need to look at every page as a potential doorway, not just the homepage. Give it a go and see what you can do. You may surprise yourself.
Brian.