You know, i swore I would never post again in this forum and now I've done gone and made a liar out of myself.
Yes, you wasted your money paying for inclusion.
No, you have not ruined your site.
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SEO for on page, in site, off site techniques. Make sure your first site is in good shape both in code, content, structure and factors. Then get QUALITY back links and I will bet you'll get quite a few more pages picked up in addition to much higher SERP rankings.
Jeeves is not a stand alone engine..lol Remember, many minor engines are blended. They use a limited database and combine it with data from majors.
Get directory listings for all your sites - these are easy one way links - in every quality directory both national and regional. Don't put your site into any directory that requires a link back. (That's a link farm IMHO not a directory)
Paid inclusion in the big boys is fine. Regional paid directory listings is dependent on traffic for your targeted KW vs number of visitors you might expect to receive.
Remember to do deep linking. ie. link to pages deeper into your site. Not just your home page. Vary your KW phrases etc.
Remember, quality back links will take care of getting your site and pages listed in the engines.
Link Link Link Link and a few more Links....But make sure they are QUALITY and RELEVANT to your site content. Nothing worse, even if you don't get caught, than spamming the engines with bogus links.