I would suggest things that suggest terminal illness in children, children with special needs, that sort of thing:

"terminally ill children, special needs children, childhood illness, emotional support programs for children"

Basically, what words or phrases might people enter into a search box that could lead them to your site? Note: sometimes it's worth including common mis-spellings of keywords...

I've just added a link to your site at http://www.psychlinks.ca/Pages/childsp.htm (and by the way this is neither a plug for my site nor a request for a reciprocal link - I just think your project has some merit). To start, have a look at other sites listed there and contact them to ask if they would be willing to link to your site. Maybe offer to link to them in return. Then, do a search on Google and other search engines for keywords and phrases such as those above, and contact the webmasters of those sites to ask about linking to you. See other threads here at WebProWorld for suggestions about requesting links.

This will help you eventually to get a better listing on Google and some other search engines.

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