at the very least you should have an important documents box/safe/safety deposit box that other people know about which has important papers (life insurance policies, bank account info, car titles, etc.) There is no reason why you can't keep some list of your websites and at least some simple instructions of how to access them.

You can put a clause in your will that any domains that you now own or that you will acquire will be given to {son, daughter, mother, father, business partner, etc} - definitely make sure that they go somewhere.

And stop being morbid.....the bane of consciousness is the knowledge of mortality.

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