Hi Slimwoman,
I've had a quick look at your page code, and to be honest it's a bit of mess. There are a lot of errors on the page some critical some not, but there are so many I would run the page through
The W3C Markup Validation Service and fix as many of the errors as possible.
I wouldn't change any XML file or Flash file until your static images are displaying correctly.
or example you have;
<a href="http://www.chuckgarretson.com/index.htm"><script src="icone_couriel.jpg"></a>
in many places using "script src" these should all read "img src" for your static images.
You have the same javascript code for embedding your Flash in the head tags twice;
<script src="http://www.chuckgarretson.com/images/flash/jscripts/AC_RunActiveContent.js" type="text/javascript"></script>
<script src="http://www.chuckgarretson.com/images/flash/jscripts/AC_ActiveX.js" type="text/javascript"></script>
You only need one of them.
You have stray javascript opening tags:
<script language="JavaScript" type="text/JavaScript">
with no script etc etc
The header seems centered whilst the page looks left aligned....
Run the validator check and try clear up these errors and things will begin work a little better,
anything you get stuck with return and you can get these sorted out one by one.
Good Luck!