I agree RE pop-ups - I use a blocker, and if by some voodoo a site manages to get past it, my blood pressure rises, I curse and head for the x button, never to return.
Personally, I would use an opt in form in a prime location on your page - people see it, and if they want to join your site they will. If they don't, a pop-up will not change their mind.
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