Dude, I love you but are in way over your head. You're not even using the right terminology. It sounds like you're either wanting a CMS (Content Management System - it supplies an interface database that makes it easier create/manage & track content, users and provides at least basic statistics on user behavior) or at least "analytics" software.


(Of course I could be the one totally mis-understanding things . . .)

There are many dozens of each. Now that you know the right terms you can search yahoo for these things and read about them.

However, they don't list their own faults (it's capitalism), and choosing/implementing the wrong one can waste tons of time, money and/or resources.

You need a consult from someone who works with these things on a regular basis. Try a web marketing expert, instead of trying to do this yourself. there are many here. I am currently not taking any new clients but there is a forum just for that in this web site.

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