First off I would like to personally thank everyone for replying. What got me into this state is that a few months ago when link:www.candlelightfashions.com was checked it showed 1-10 of 12. It has been slowly dropping and the ones dropping off for the most part are the links coming from the site itself. But yes when a site:www.candlelightfashions.com is done it shows most of the site pages. So yes I got real worried and still am to be honest.

Next question. I started a second site using that same template "www.thehighheelstore.com". It has the same type of products but different products themselves. I did also put a link to Candlelight Fashions from this site at the bottom of every page. Google as of yet does not count these links. So is this site hurting me or helping me as far as backlinks go?