Facts:
The Open in DMOZ is used to mean that DMOZ's database is open for anyone to use (how many time does that have to be stted before people get it).

DMOZ is not a listing service for webmasters (never has been).

There was a server crash of the old severs that took a long time to restore (you can find your own links to the facts, they have been widely documented).

You seem to be under the impression that DMOZ owes you some sort of service. What sort of sevice are you expecting? How much are you paying for that service? Maybe you should ask for a refund.