Full stop. That is the most insane statement I ever hear.

If you exchange links with other related sites, that is sure not black hat SEO. That is a very healthy linking strategy. You start moving to those dark SEO techniques, when you start linking to/back to, non-related web sites and you do not use the "nofollow" attribute at least.

Just my last cents about this.

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