not a horrible site but needs work on the SEO.

Last time I peeked in my little black book of SEO secrets, creating page names like "articlesonfriendsandfriendshipfriendshiplast" is kinda, just a pinch on the spam side.

This lower menu really would have worked well in the early 90s but that time is over.
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All these links to the same page of the site is just screaming "Google, please don't include my site in your index"

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good luck